” ” ” “The second aspect concerning the young is "preparation for the future". Benedict XVI reminds the engaged that the engagement period is fundamental to build up the couple. It is a period for waiting and preparation, which has to be spent in chastity of gestures and words". According to the Pope, "that allows them to mature in love, in attention and care for the other; it helps to exercise dominion of oneself, and to develop respect for the other. All of them are the characteristics of true love, which does not put one’s satisfaction and one’s wellness in the first place". The Pope encourages "not to hesitate in answering the call of the Lord, for the Christian marriage is a real vocation of the Church. In the same way, dear boys and girls, be ready to say “yes” if God asks you to follow him on the path of the ministerial priesthood or the consecrated life. Your example will encourage lots of people your age, who are looking for real happiness".
